{"id":9640,"date":"2019-10-13T11:19:43","date_gmt":"2019-10-13T03:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/?p=9640"},"modified":"2019-10-31T18:55:52","modified_gmt":"2019-10-31T10:55:52","slug":"9-tips-to-being-a-better-co-living-neighbour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/everyday-living\/9-tips-to-being-a-better-co-living-neighbour\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Tips to Being a Better Co-Living Neighbour"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”padding-4-percent” column_padding_position=”all” background_color=”#fefeff” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”10px” top_margin=”-20%” width=”5\/6″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none”]
<\/div><\/div>[vc_custom_heading text=”9 Tips to Being a Better Co-Living Neighbour (with a bonus tip at the end!)” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:left” use_theme_fonts=”yes” css=”.vc_custom_1570772893502{margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”][vc_custom_heading text=”Co-living has a multitude of positives but there is always that shade of uncertainty when wondering about the people you will end up sharing a space with. But if you’re the problem… then here’s what you need to do to be a better co-living neighbour!” font_container=”tag:h3|text_align:left” use_theme_fonts=”yes”][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1572518084553{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]We don’t always get to choose who we live with. Some make too much noise, some don’t talk at all. Some always leave the toilet seat up, while others never do the dishes. Some are messy eaters and some drink milk straight out of the carton (please don’t).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no avoiding it, really. Especially when you\u2019ve opted to bunk in with a number of others. Co-living has a multitude of positives but there is always that shade of uncertainty when wondering about the people you will end up sharing a space with.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever had the displeasure of experiencing a bad neighbour, you know that you should never let the good ones go. However, if you are that carton-drinking-menace then here\u2019s some co-living etiquette you need to understand.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570773516523{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

1. Communicate<\/b><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570935392238{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]The cornerstone of every healthy relationship is proper and frequent communication. This is pretty basic but people tend to neglect the importance of connecting by talking things out. Communication helps you better understand your neighbour thus forming a stronger relationship in hopes of being a good housemate.<\/p>\n

An easy start would be to always take the first step and make an effort to discover their interests when introducing yourself. By establishing a two-way channel of communication, you will be able to build trust and learn more about your new neighbour.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know, a warm \u201cTell me about yourself!\u201d could lead to a great friendship.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570773689481{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

2. Cleanliness<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570935272424{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Although hygiene standards differ between individuals, basic cleanliness is an easy \u2018must-have\u2019. No one likes a messy and dirty housemate that doesn’t clean up. Be conscious of your cleanliness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Talk to your co-living neighbour and find out irks them the most about a dirty house. Are they asking for a bit too much? Or is this something you can work with? Try to find some middle ground.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Basic things like washing your used dishes or sweeping up bread crumbs left on the floor are a given. You can be comfortable in your own mess – in your own house but realise that this shared piece of real estate doesn’t just belong to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your mess will inturn become something others have to deal with. That\u2019s just not cool.<\/span>
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3. Be Respectful<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570935418555{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]An important aspect of shared living is having mutual respect for one another and also having respect for the shared space. Treat your fellow co-living mates as equals. They might come from different backgrounds and cultures.<\/p>\n

Your views might not always be the same. However, that does not mean you should treat them any different than you would like others to treat you. Always remember that whatever communal item or space you use has to be properly maintained; others use it too.<\/p>\n

If you show a little respect to those around you, they will, in turn, start showing you the respect you deserve.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774233770{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

4. Bringing other people into the house<\/b><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774257100{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Even though co-living is all about mingling and making new friends, brining unknown or new people into the house without giving your housemates a heads up, can be somewhat insensitive. <\/span>
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\n<\/span>If you are living in an all-female co-living property, you might want to give your neighbours a call before inviting a male friend for drinks. <\/span>
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\n<\/span>It\u2019s also nice to let them know if you are having a party or a couple of friends over. Your neighbours might already trust you but having someone new in their personal space might not be appreciated by all.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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5. Be Social<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774316874{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Being social is the best way to establish communication and build a great relationship with your co-living neighbours. You can throw a party for each of your co-living neighbours.<\/p>\n

Show them you\u2019re making an effort to find out more about them. Be a friend and allow relationships to grow. I know, not everyone is that kind of outgoing individual but stepping out and socializing with your fellow housemates will make the co-living experience more fruitful.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about putting yourself out there and exploring the minds of other interesting individuals. So don\u2019t be bummer and get involved![\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774352102{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

6. Unconscious habits<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570935588298{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]This next one requires a bit of self-awareness. We all have that one habit which annoys someone else to the brink of insanity. I might be something as little as never closing the fridge door properly or always sneezing like an air horn.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

These beautiful nuances make us who we are but they can also chase your housemate out the door! Here\u2019s some advice, next time you feel that aura of disdain when you\u2019re chewing with your mouth open; <\/span>take a hint<\/span>. <\/span>
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\n<\/span>Small changes such as this can turn into a big positive when forging a relationship between you and your co-living neighbour.<\/span><\/p>\n

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7. Try to do something nice<\/b><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774442290{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]The first few key moments of interaction between two strangers can sometimes yield great reward in a long-lasting relationship. Doing <\/span>a solid<\/span><\/i> or going out of your way to help your co-living mates is a great way to build trust and get them to like you.<\/span><\/p>\n

The best part about making someone happy is making you feel happy. <\/span>\u201cDoing good deeds bring happiness, Doing evil deeds brings suffering.\u201d<\/span><\/i>
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It really doesn\u2019t take a lot to do something nice. A morning cup of coffee, doing the dishes or saving that last cookie; these are simple actions that could make someone’s day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Putting the effort in doing something good for your neighbour will show how generous and nice you are with others. Who knows, one day you might even be greeted with a nice cup of joe. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774481288{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

8. Be aware of crossing lines<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774508243{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]In shared spaces in the living sector like co-living and cohousing, lines between private and communal areas can often be blurred. Spending a lot of time with others in your shared home can leave you yearning for your own personal space; that often becomes your room.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is important that all co-living individuals realise the importance of this personal space and that it is fully respected. No matter how close you and your new neighbours are, do not enter their rooms or private quarters without their supervision.<\/span><\/p>\n

Human beings tend to latch on to such things and personal boundaries can get territorial. So even if it’s just to borrow someone\u2019s laptop charger, always ask beforehand. It\u2019s best if you try to do it when they are present in the room.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774606293{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

9. Handle problems maturely<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774628349{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]It\u2019s common to have disputes while residing in co-living spaces. The important thing is how well you handle these problems. If you find anything that you are not okay with, raise the problem with your co-living neighbours, but do so in a mature way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Many times, people lose their self-control and get involved in heated arguments with their neighbours. Swallow that ego and take a step back. Cool-heads solve disputes, hotheads only escalate the issue.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, you\u2019ve got to see this person every day. Don\u2019t ruin your experience over trivial matters. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774724060{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

Here\u2019s a bonus tip about pets<\/b><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text]
\"\"<\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570774628349{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]It\u2019s common to have disputes while residing in co-living spaces. The important thing is how well you handle these problems. If you find anything that you are not okay with, raise the problem with your co-living neighbours, but do so in a mature way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Many times, people lose their self-control and get involved in heated arguments with their neighbours. Swallow that ego and take a step back. Cool-heads solve disputes, hotheads only escalate the issue.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, you\u2019ve got to see this person every day. Don\u2019t ruin your experience over trivial matters. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570779390924{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]\n

Final Thoughts<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1570779404462{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Living in shared accommodation can be exciting. You get to meet new people, experience new things and make friends along the way. To ensure a great stay for you and those around you, it requires a little self-awareness.<\/p>\n

Everybody wants to live comfortably and in a shared space, comfort comes hand in hand with happiness. So, follow the tips, tricks and etiquettes in this ultimate guide and you\u2019ll be sure to live happily in the comforts of co-living.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1\/6″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_widget_sidebar enable_sticky=”true” sidebar_id=”blog-sidebar”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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