{"id":8110,"date":"2018-04-05T17:45:41","date_gmt":"2018-04-05T09:45:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/?p=8110"},"modified":"2018-04-16T10:21:49","modified_gmt":"2018-04-16T02:21:49","slug":"fall-in-love-in-singapore-expat-dating-edition-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/explore\/fall-in-love-in-singapore-expat-dating-edition-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Fall in love in Singapore: Expat dating edition part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-4-percent&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#fefeff&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;10px&#8221; top_margin=&#8221;-20%&#8221; width=&#8221;5\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221;]<div class=\"divider-wrap\"><div style=\"margin-top: 5px; width: 100px; height: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;\" data-width=\"100\" data-animate=\"yes\" data-animation-delay=\"\" data-color=\"accent-color\" class=\"divider-small-border\"><\/div><\/div>[vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Fall in love in Singapore: Expat dating edition part 1&#8243; font_container=&#8221;tag:h1|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1522917051876{margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1523845288198{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Being a single expat holed up in your serviced apartment can be pretty lonely, it&#8217;s hard to be in a place without a loved one. In Singapore, expats dating each other or the locals are not uncommon. Now we can\u2019t quite help you fall in love, but we can point you in the right direction and make it a little easier to meet someone new in a foreign and exotic country. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whether you\u2019re looking for a soulmate to spend every cheesy moment with or a brief fling that the morning after might be more memorable thanks to the throbbing hangover, we\u2019ll school you in the ways of love.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In this first part, we\u2019ll cover the dating apps you can use in Singapore, and how to use them. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Start swiping with the kingpin of dating apps, Tinder.&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img3.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img3.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img3-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img3-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img3-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1522919382970{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tinder.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tinder\u2019s<\/a> that dating app that everyone\u2019s heard of. Pretty simple to use, swipe right if you like someone and swipe left if you\u2019re not interested. Swipe up for a super-like, to let someone know you&#8217;re really into them. There is a limited number of likes that resets every couple of hours unless you pay for premium which gets you a lot more features. A lot of expats and locals alike can be seen on the app.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Ladies first, with Bumble. &#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1522919234650{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bumble.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bumble<\/a> revolutionizes the dating app game by allowing females to take the first step in the interactions. Similar to Tinder, people can like each other by swiping but only women can start the interaction by messaging first. Unlike Tinder, Bumble has unlimited swipes.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Get your coffee (and bagel) fix with Coffee Meets Bagel.&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img1.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img1.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img1-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img1-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img1-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1523598136581{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In <a href=\"https:\/\/coffeemeetsbagel.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Coffee Meets Bagels<\/a>, you get a certain amount of bagels (people) to swipe through every day at noon, in your Suggested page based on a matching algorithm. There is also Discover bagels page, where people who don\u2019t exactly meet the algorithm\u2019s criteria. These bagels can be recommended to a friend or even to take for yourself, at the cost of some coffee beans. Coffee beans are Coffee Meets Bagels&#8217; in-app currency.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Let cupid take a shot with OkCupid.&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1522920983337{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.okcupid.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">OkCupid<\/a> has been around for almost as long as the phrase &#8216;dating site&#8217; has been. Designed for more serious users, the app ranks interests and likes very highly, constantly asks you filtering questions to help their algorithm to matchmake you more accurately. It proudly celebrates its users for who they are, and not how they look like.\u00a0<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Some game-changing tips to up your game. &#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img2.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img2.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img2-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img2-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/5apr_img2-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1523598208879{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Setting up a decent profile is important. Get a few flattering photos in there. Try to avoid group shots and pretentious-looking shots (shirtless guys, or people trying to show off their cars). Write up a witty little bio and fill up description boxes to beef up your profile.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The generic hi and hellos openers usually merit no reply, especially on women. Stand out right from your conversation starter. It\u2019s a numbers game and people receive 10s if not 100s of messages, so it\u2019s best if you make yours interesting. Get creative with the witty one-liners, jokes, name puns or anything you can work with on their bio.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Again, it&#8217;s a numbers game. Try to get her or his number quick so you can text them privately and you won\u2019t have to fight and vie for attention amongst the hundreds of others talking to them in-app.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If dating apps aren\u2019t your thing, look out for our next Singapore expats dating edition on how to get out there the old-school way. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_widget_sidebar enable_sticky=&#8221;true&#8221; sidebar_id=&#8221;blog-sidebar&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-4-percent&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#fefeff&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;10px&#8221; top_margin=&#8221;-20%&#8221; width=&#8221;5\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Fall in love in Singapore: Expat dating edition part 1&#8243;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":8112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[140,178,176,29,175,177],"class_list":["post-8110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-explore","tag-apps","tag-bumble","tag-dating","tag-expats","tag-singapore-expats-dating","tag-tinder"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8110"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8170,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8110\/revisions\/8170"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}