{"id":7833,"date":"2018-02-22T10:47:23","date_gmt":"2018-02-22T02:47:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/?p=7833"},"modified":"2018-04-05T13:57:18","modified_gmt":"2018-04-05T05:57:18","slug":"your-best-defence-against-culture-shock-when-aboard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/everyday-living\/your-best-defence-against-culture-shock-when-aboard\/","title":{"rendered":"Your best defence against culture shock when abroad"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-4-percent&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#fefeff&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;10px&#8221; top_margin=&#8221;-20%&#8221; width=&#8221;5\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221;]<div class=\"divider-wrap\"><div style=\"margin-top: 5px; width: 100px; height: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;\" data-width=\"100\" data-animate=\"yes\" data-animation-delay=\"\" data-color=\"accent-color\" class=\"divider-small-border\"><\/div><\/div>[vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Your best defence against culture shock when abroad&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h1|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1522907691942{margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519265230677{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whether you\u2019re working abroad for a long term or short term, culture shock can happen to anyone. Even if you\u2019re not here for a business stay, you can still feel the negative effects of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Culture shock is experienced differently by everyone. The adverse signs of it include fatigue, stress and homesickness.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The 4 Stages.&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519267404736{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Generally, there are 4 phases a person goes through whilst travelling for work. Most people don\u2019t notice that they\u2019re going through a change until they feel the adverse effects. Now, this is not a step-by-step process, you might find that you experience multiple phases at once, or even skip certain phases. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The Lovey-Dovey phase.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image1.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image1.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image1-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image1-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image1-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519265584931{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This is the stage where you fall in love with all things new of the country &#8211; the language, beautiful sights &amp; sounds, the exotic food, the multicultural people and their way of life. Especially in Singapore, where one of its most enticing lures is food.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sometimes, for very short trips the culture \u2018shock\u2019 ends here and the later, more adverse effects of culture shock don\u2019t have time to set in. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The \u2018Urgh\u2019 phase.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image2.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image2.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image2-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image2-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image2-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519350164158{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Having everything new and exotic might after awhile be surprisingly tedious to handle. This is the stage where the negative effects of culture shock come into play. Things like not knowing what the locals are saying in their native tongue or getting lost because of street names you can\u2019t pronounce. Even <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/metroresidences.com\/sg\/expat-life\/everyday-living\/why-you-so-blur-like-sotong-a-singlish-lesson-for-baffled-expats\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">weird little Singlish jargons<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> peppering conversations that veer you off the course of comprehension. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This is where the negative symptoms usually set in &#8211; feelings of homesickness, fatigue and stress. However, this usually fades away once you get used to things. This what we call&#8230;<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The Change phase.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image4.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image4.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image4-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image4-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image4-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519265655376{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">At this stage, you start making adjustments to the way you live to suit the culture in Singapore. This is when you start getting used to things, accepting how things are and the way of life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For example, back home your primary mode of transport might have been a car, but with exuberant car prices and an easily accessible <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/metroresidences.com\/sg\/expat-life\/everyday-living\/the-complete-newbies-guide-to-singapores-public-transportation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">public transportation system<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, you might find yourself tapping your EZ-Link almost daily. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The Acceptance phase.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519265689150{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Once you get here, you\u2019re a well-seasoned expat. It doesn\u2019t necessarily mean you\u2019ve got a full, deep understanding of the culture in Singapore, you\u2019ve only come to know the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spps.org\/cms\/lib\/MN01910242\/Centricity\/Domain\/125\/iceberg_model_3.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">tip of the iceberg<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You\u2019re not only accepting the culture and the way of life, but that homesickness and stress are inevitable factors when it comes to working aboard. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;The culture shock antidote.&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519608111867{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You can easily overcome culture shock if you follow these simple steps. Do your homework even before stepping on the plane, learn about the culture by reading online. <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/metroresidences.com\/sg\/expat-life\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Expat Life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> is a good start, we\u2019re all things Singapore for the discerning expat. You can also start reading the local news like <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/global\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Straits Times<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> and <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.businesstimes.com.sg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Business Times<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Float like a social butterfly, and get rid of the culture shock sting.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image5.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image5.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image5-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image5-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image5-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519350132685{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Hang out with colleagues, foreign friends or even by yourself exploring the new country you\u2019re in. Go to museums, bars or whatever else the wanderlust in you desires. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ask the people around you about their culture. What practices to adopt, what is and isn\u2019t allowed. For example, in Singapore, we stand on the left side of the escalator and we put a small article such as a tissue packet to reserve a table at food courts. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Choose a place that feels like a home away from home.<br \/>\n&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;]<div class=\"img-with-aniamtion-wrap \" data-max-width=\"100%\" data-border-radius=\"none\"><div class=\"inner\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-shadow=\"none\" data-shadow-direction=\"middle\" class=\"img-with-animation \" data-delay=\"0\" height=\"690\" width=\"1050\" data-animation=\"fade-in\" src=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image3.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image3.jpg 1050w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image3-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image3-768x505.jpg 768w, https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/02\/22feb_image3-1024x673.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" alt=\"\" \/><\/div><\/div>[vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;It&#8217;s what&#8217;s inside that matters the most.&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519350225029{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<b>Furnishing &amp; Space <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; Choose a large spacious <a href=\"https:\/\/metroresidences.com\/sg\/\">serviced apartment<\/a>, one you can zen up easily. A corporate accommodation that is tastefully furnished &#8211; but not too extravagantly, so you can easily add your own accents to it. You can get candles, mementoes from back home, succulents and whatever else that reminds you of home. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Housekeeping <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; With all the stresses of the culture shock, you don\u2019t want to come home to cluttered home. With serviced apartments in Singapore like us, housekeeping is provided and you needn\u2019t worry about cleaning up after a long day of work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>WiFi <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; Feeling homesick? Reconnect with loved ones via video calls or instant messaging. Look for serviced apartments that offer high-speed internet, so you can talk to your loved ones back at home. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Location, location, location<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> &#8211; Choose a serviced apartment with a surrounding that\u2019s soothing to you. You might be tempted to pick something close to your office or popular shopping districts, but if you pick something that is close to a park or beach, it can create a calming atmosphere for you to return to after work. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Keep your guard up for the reverse culture shock. &#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h3|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1519350255806{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There is also a chance that you might get used to the life here &#8211; and fall in love with it. After falling into a habit and getting used to how things are done in Singapore, going back to your home country might be a little difficult. Having to repatriate and adjust to life back at home after you\u2019ve settled here. The same ways to prevent culture shock can be again repeated in your home country.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Share this article with anyone you know who faces culture shock. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_widget_sidebar enable_sticky=&#8221;true&#8221; sidebar_id=&#8221;blog-sidebar&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-4-percent&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#fefeff&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;10px&#8221; top_margin=&#8221;-20%&#8221; width=&#8221;5\/6&#8243; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Your best defence against culture shock when abroad&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h1|text_align:left&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":7836,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[148,147,47,76,63],"class_list":["post-7833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-everyday-living","tag-corporate-accommodation","tag-culture-shock","tag-expat","tag-metroresidences","tag-serviced-apartment"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7833"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7833\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8107,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7833\/revisions\/8107"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/expat.metroresidences.com\/sg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}